Love this site and read it constantly. This is the first time I've contributed. I thought this was for comments about Lainey's post. Suddenly we're speculating about a Sandra Bullock sex tape? First, it's well known that she and Jesse adopted this child before their marriage blew up. I've seen nothing to indicate that this child is window-dressing. Second, many non-Jews choose to hire a mohel to circumcise their sons -- because doctors use a clamp and until recently used NO ANESTHETIC, and mohels do it freehand, ie more accurately, and have always given the baby a cloth to suck on with a few drops of wine. Why is it not possible that Sandra Bullock foolishly married a jerk and ignored all her friends' warnings, then found out in the most hideous way possible, and is choosing to take the high road? I think @caz's comment contains undertones of racism and should be removed.